Common Myths of Therapy

  • Why should I go to therapy?
  • They’ll just blame everything on my childhood.
  • Therapy is for crazy people!
  • Therapy is for weak or mentally ill people! 
  • My problems aren’t serious enough for therapy.
  • Therapy will make things worse!

Do any of these statements sound familiar? There are so many myths about therapy – and before I became a therapist, I believed some of them, too! 

But the fact is, everyone goes through challenging situations at various points in their life. Undoubtedly, you have successfully navigated through a number of difficulties in the past, but perhaps you are feeling overwhelmed or at a loss for what to do. Deciding to seek help is a courageous step; in fact, therapy is for people who have enough self-awareness to realize they need a helping hand.

By reaching out to a trained professional, you are taking the first step to change and improve your life. Therapy provides tremendous benefits and long-lasting results by giving you the tools you need to improve your quality of life, learn new skills, and resolve conflicts which will lead to finding balance in your life and your relationships. 

So here is a new list – a list of truths and benefits about therapy! 

It’s Not for “Crazy” People

No, you don’t have to be “crazy” to go to therapy. Therapy is beneficial to everyone – none of us are perfect.

There is always something you can open up about and share with an unrelated party like a therapist. And doing so can make you feel more at peace with yourself and more balanced in your life. 

New Website, New Blog, and New Career

Hello! I am glad you are here on my new website and my new blog. Let me start out by sharing a little bit about myself.

My name is Anjolina (Angie) Bates and I became a Licensed Associate Counselor and a Licensed Associate Marriage and Family Therapist in 2020. This is my second career; previously, I had an IT business that I started way back in 1991 in Conway, Arkansas. I also was a Network Manager for a federal government research facility for eight years. 

A few years ago, I went to therapy for the first time because things felt like they were falling apart internally. I struggled to concentrate on anything and it felt like I was in the biggest funk of my life. I had no idea what I was doing when I first googled “therapist” but figured things out pretty quickly. As luck would have it, the therapist I chose had an opening that afternoon due to a cancellation. 

Those few hours of waiting felt like a lifetime! Read more >